For once i feel like i am okay with having curves. I was talking to a friend today about some things going on in my life and me stressing about my body and not feeling comfortable about looking the way i do sometimes. I can look in the mirror and think you are beautiful so thats not my problem. When i think about other people looking at me and judging me i freak out and this is what he said to me, ” I actually love the way you look, you wear those little dresses to parties and i look at you and see a beautiful girl, i can’t pick out a single flaw.” ” Im usually one of those guys that look at ass and tits on a girl but with you, i find myself thinking “her smile is great” and “she has really pretty eyes” and im betting a lot of other guys think the same thing.” It was such a nice change of pace to have a legitimate guy tell me what he thinks of me and that im pretty without him trying to get into my pants. That alone makes me feel beautiful and that i can own what i got. Im gonna embrace what i have and not worry so much about the negative because honestly, its not them that i have to please its me. And if im confident with what i have that is what i will show.